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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What are your filters?  Do you have any?

I talked with five or six men, went on three first dates, two second dates, and am with the one I went on a third date with.

None of them brought up sex during texting or during the dates. I brought up sexual compatibility with the man I’m still seeing, at the end of the second date, suggesting we might want to check that out, given we really like each other.  And we started checking that out on the third date.

I was selective in filters, though, only seeing men who selected Liberal, and religion as agnostic, atheist, or spiritual. And after that only swiped on men who had already least one interest like empathy, feminism, kindness, lgbtq ally, philosophy, environmentalism, voter rights, science…[/quote]

I have no interest in paying for premium so I cant set filters. But this is the first time i've had it happen, too. Most men seem to be at least socially functional enough to realize that that's not the best way to go about it, even if theyre are hoping conversations will lead to sex  :lol:  It's actually kind of funny to think about, you have to wonder how many times he's struck out and how he's so single minded and yet using a technique that will scare off the vast majority of women!  Oh well... lesson learned for him, maybe[/quote]

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