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[quote=Anonymous]This post brought out some crazies!

OP, I had a summer sitter (college student) like this.  It broke my heart, she was clearly addicted to her phone.  I love her dearly but wow.  She probably looked at her phone every 3 minutes.  Never about Ukraine, it was TikTok, SnapChat, etc.

In my case, I just let it slide because my kids could entertain themselves and she was otherwise the sweetest young woman and a very good babysitter.

I wouldn't bring it up to your nanny.  She is likely addicted, and will just quit if you try to restrain her usage.

Instead, I'd start with this:  is her phone usage detrimental to your child?  Research shows that caregivers (including parents) on phones has a negative impact on children.  Kids are begging to get their parents' attention.  But if your child is getting the attention she needs from you, her teachers, etc... it might not matter that her afternoon sitter isn't really paying attention to her.  If your child isn't bothered by it, don't worry about it.  Just make sure your child has lots of activities she can do independently.

However, if the phone usage is detrimental to your child's well being - like your child is looking for connection and is being shut down in favor of a smartphone - it's a no brainer - get a new nanny!

Best of luck mama.
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