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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Man - that thing where the husband feels bad about sex decreasing and wants to know why; the wife responds by feeling pressured and having sex she doesn't want to, leading to even less and worse sex. *That's* the danger of talking about sex. Communication is not always the key. In that scenario, if DH had just waited it out, the couple's sex life probably would have been better than it was as a result of his effort to talk about it. [/quote] Yeah, probably, primarily because his communication about it was very bad. He was demanding, confrontational, and totally lacking in empathy. At that time he generally seemed disappointed and irritated with me. If, in our marriage, I generally felt loved and like he cared about how I was feeling and the struggles I was going through, communication about sex probably would have been helpful. [/quote]
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