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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've been divorced for 10 years and I've had sex twice in 10 yrs.  I enjoy sex but I have to have time for it.  With work, kids, and aging parents, I just haven't had time to date.  I'm not going to go out to bar on a Tuesday night and try and find some random guy to sleep with.  I work from home so no opportunity to meet someone at the office.  It's weird to think of sleeping with a dad from my kids school.

I never thought of it as a cause for a concern.  I just haven't had time. [/quote]

Obviously you don't enjoy sex enough to actually hav sex.  You are.completely unmotivated to have sex.  You are asexual.  You just don't want to admit what you are.[/quote]

Honestly, PP what's totally disqualifying from a dating and relationship perspective, IMO, is how you feel completely comfortable telling another person what that other person thinks and feels about sex, and that your view your own judgment about their internal feelings and values as more correct than their expressed views on the topic.

That, "I know your feelings better than you do" mentality is a huge relationship red flag for me. 
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You're kind of a psycho because I didn't say I wanted to be in relationship with a man hating asexual feminist beast.  I'm simply pointing out the obvious.  Women who want sex have sex.  Women who don't, don't.  OP is dating the latter which is a complete waste of his time.  Lol at the nut jobs telling him to wait several months to see if sex happens.  That insane.  No normal woman would expect a normal man to wait several months for sex.  The problem is these forums attract severely psychologically disturbed people who pretend that their lifestyles are normal.[/quote]

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