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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Based on response or non response my guess is you don't get your kids to all trainings and are grumpy your kid is given less play time.  T or F.  Are you at 90 percent of sessions?[/quote]

OP here. FTR, my kid hasn’t missed a single practice and is never late. I respond to all emails in a timely manner. DC steps up and plays for other teams when players are needed. The only time I received any feedback was when I was writing out a check for the program. DD receives feedback in practices from assistant coaches but not the HC. I have never emailed or talked to the coach about it. That was the point of my post. [b]Why do some posters in this forum always assume that it’s the players or the parents and the not the coach?[/b] [/quote]

IDK OP. If it's the coach, I'd think there would be a lot more parents complaining. Why do you think this grown man (?) is picking a fight with your little kid? [/quote]

LOL, you clearly do not have kids who are athletes. One does not simply complain to a coach. Not unless you want to make things immeasurably worse for your kids.

There are a lot of sh----y coaches who have no business coaching. And, yes, that is a fair thing to say. It's not always the parents, the kids fault. In fact, in a lot of instances it is not. [/quote]

Absolutely some coaches are awful. It isn’t always parents. In that situation best thing to do is keep mouth shut, and then thank the coach and move to a new team after the season ends. [/quote]

OP, I’m in this situation and this is how I’m dealing with it. I am a quiet person and it’s hard for me to see how I caused this.  DC is a really hard worker, and skilled, but the coach just doesn’t like him or his playing style.  We don’t push back or ask questions of the coach. We don’t criticize the coach in front of DC. We tell DC to keep working hard and good things will happen.  The season is over half way over and we plan to move on. It’s not a fit and I’m tired of trying to understand why. [/quote]

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