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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP's DH has definitely told his mother that she can stay as long as she wants and has not told OP for sure. [/quote]

I'm OP - this is correct.[/quote]

Is this the way you want to live your life?

You could suddenly have a crisis, start screaming and throwing out all her things outside. If you can't work yourself up to that, then have a discussion with your husband that his mother is not allowed to live here indefinitely, and that you own this house (jointly with husband), not her, and that you will move out, and possibly divorce, if that's the way it's going to be. Then you tell MIL that she's overstepped, that she and son cannot walk all over you like this, and she has to move out. That YOUR needs as the wife are more important than hers, and you will defend them. That she's been rude to you since day 1, and now she's crossed the line and you don't ever want to see her ever again in YOUR house. Give her a week to move out. 
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