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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Mine talks about her will and her lawyer a lot. I get the sense she makes an appointment to change things every time she happy or unhappy with me. But yeah, I think she’s leaving most of it to my kids and a good amount to her church. I haven’t done what she wanted- let her walk all over me and my husband and tell us how to run our lives- so I’m pretty sure I’m getting a couple dollars and a ten page lecture and how much she feels sorry for me for her jr ting her way. [/quote]
Mine does too. My mom thinks going to a therapist means that you’re crazy and so she instead uses her lawyer as her captive audience. [/quote]

OMG I found my people. My mom also thinks therapy is for crazies. So she spends a fortune complaining to her accountant and her lawyer whenever she requests a meeting. I had a good laugh when she in her most pompous voice informed me that when she complained to her lawyer about what a terrible daughter I was for x, y, and z, the lawyer explained I was "setting boundaries" with her. She then told me what to do with those boundaries.

I shut down her weekly proclamations about how she is "thinking about changing her will" and her various threats, and barbs. I also told my mother she is free to do whatever she wants with her money, but I don't need updates. I expect her to leave it all to my GC sibling who she already gives a monthly stipend.[/quote]

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