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[quote=Anonymous]Ha, I got this- have sadly had to deal with it.

A true narcissist can't WAIT long enough for death OR stand the thought of not being able to witness the inflicted pain of being pointedly left out of a will. They won't be there when the will is executed! So they will let you know in advance of their intentions so they can enjoy your pain if you let them.

We are in our 40s but my brother (never married/no kids/long time older girlfriend) already did this by randomly bringing it up and letting me know his adviser told him not to have any surprises-otherwise his will could be contested- so he needed to inform me I/my elementary aged kids would get nothing. (wth did THAT come from?) I was honestly in shock but also realized in the moment that he was trying to 'get' me so I underreacted.

I simply told him his money was his own at that point and though he was childless, if instead of providing for my sister/me/my kids, he felt a need to leave our parents money to other peoples children despite our parent's wishes/values in providing/keeping it in the family- that was strange to me but his business. I just expressed that I never knew how much these people meant to him (and he confirmed he'd never even met any of these kids).  He advised he was leaving it to a few different random children of male friends he hasn't seen in 30 years who apparently had kids out of wedlock that they have never provided for- so he would provide for. And these were people my parents actively hated due to drug/alcohol use they pulled him into so I told him 'thank God mum isn't alive to hear that but ok!') My sister and I then just spoke later about it and shook our heads. But I hope I got him back. I know he was with his girlfriend on the call so I repeatedly exclaimed that he should leave it to her. At least she was a nice person and we know and love her. I just kept saying 'omg what does gf say about this- does she even know these people? yikes' until he got off the phone.[/quote]

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