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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That's exactly why I don't tell DH when I take a day off sometimes. He always wants to hijack it and impose his hobby on us and bill it as OUR time, but I just want my own down time. So I've done the not telling thing, and I've done the telling but setting firm boundaries: no I don't want to spend it on your hobby on my day off; I just want to see a movie that you don't care about. Either way, I feel zero guilt.[/quote] “As long as you’re off, would you mind taking my car to the shop, picking up my dry cleaning, getting this thing from a Home Depot, grocery shopping etc etc etc.?” This is why I never tell my husband when I take a day off. It’s not “errand day”.[/quote]
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