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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH and I both work FT outside the home.  I took the day off without mentioning it to him and he “caught” me when he emailed something to my work email address and got my out of office response.  Now his feelings are hurt because he says if I’d told him he could have also taken the day off and spent the day together.

I wasn’t up to anything nefarious, just wanted a quiet day with the house to myself and I love him, but his idea of how to spend the day wouldn’t match mine.  TBH I thought everyone did this sometimes - am I wrong?[/quote]

He sounds nice that he wants to grab lunch or spend some time with you during the family and holiday and yearend hecticness.

I’m super busy in all facets so if I’m taking a PTO day it’s because I’m sick or need a personal day to catch my breath or just finished massive travel or a big long project. It’s really none of his business. I’d tell him I’m decompressing and getting a hair cut and a nap and xmas shopping. BFD

In contrast to his informal PTO days golfing, overeating, or sleeping . [/quote]

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