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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Two things jump out at me:

"We see each other non-stop"
Your child should come first. What is your child doing while you're hanging out with your bf?

"his finances are in flux" 
Stay the he** away from any commitment that involves finances, like sharing a home. Being a single mother already puts you in a precarious financial situation. Also, by 47, most people should be financially stable so this is a big red flag for me because it suggests deeper issues with him.  [/quote]

OP here. Thanks everyone for your feedback. I am going to end things.

With respect to my son, I haven't seen signs that he struggles with that. He initiatives doing family friendly activities with my son on a regular basis and seems to really enjoy it. He is very hands on in this area.

He is not financially irresponsible. He owns his own business and had a bad year. We have walked through his finances and I consider them to be in a good spot, but he is more financially conservative than me and has been putting all this pressure on himself about how much he should be able to provide in the future.[/quote]

If you are seeing each other non-stop, having sex and have woven him into your kid’s life, with no inkling of commitment…you rushed things.

In the future, take it more slowly. [/quote]

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