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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok, so I am 99% sure he’s not attracted to her or anything like that, it’s a truly platonic friendship going back many years, she’s married too etc, but (of course there’s a BUT) she’s texting my husband, calling etc way too damn much for my taste about random stuff. I’m just not ok with it. It feels like it is crossing a line. I keep having that internal debate about, well but what’s the harm and they’ve been friends since way before I met him even and they talk about benign boring things it seems but then the other side of me wonders why the hell she is asking my husband this stuff and not finding someone else to ask. I fear I may just one day lose it and get pissed. Any one have wise thoughts?[/quote]

I definitely have thoughts. First of all your feelings and concerns are totally valid here. Don't let the folks that always rush into these threads to be the contrarian make you feel otherwise. I had a similar situation in my marriage. She was always there, texting, FB, Twitter. She seemed to really enjoy collecting married male friends, and made a huge show of it on social media. This was no one he *needed* to interact with for work/a hobby etc so I finally asked him if this could slow down so her need for attention wasn't taking priority over our family. He very begrudgingly agreed.  A[b] few weeks later when I thought this was resolved, I saw him texting away with her one night on a burner phone.[/b] 🙄 He wasn't willing or able to control himself. I eventually left, not because of this specifically but because it showed how out of whack his priorities were. I had the same questions then that I would for your DH too, mainly why? Why him, what's going on with her? Is this a temporary situation? [/quote]

What the ever-loving heck? OMG. [/quote]

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