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[quote=Anonymous]I experienced complex PTSD from betrayal trauma in a relationship in which my then DH cheated on me with a wide variety of other women, while I was pregnant no less. The PTSD came from the repeated lying over time about what he was doing. I couldn't begin to get over it until I was out of the relationship with him, and even then I couldn't fully get over it until the point when my youngest kid was in HS and basically old enough that I didn't have to be in touch with exDH for anything. Since his behavior was pathological lying being in touch with him and being the recipient of more lies and unreliability was just like a new trauma every time. Now that I can grey-rock him and not answer his calls, I am much better. But, in another sense I will never heal or recover, because I will never have trust like that in people again, particularly not men. [/quote]
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