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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This happened before college. One child needed to go to a private high school, but the others didn't. We could not afford the private high school for the others, even though it was a better school. The others didn't like their public high school, but they never complained that their sibling got to go to a better school. They knew their sibling needed the private school, so I guess they considered that "fair." They all went to public colleges at nearly the same cost, tho one of them got significant scholarships. No complaints from that child that we'd spent more money on the others. They understand we are fair to each of them: they get what they need, not what they want. [/quote] Because you raised your kids to have empathy, and appreciate that they didn't have the learning issues/whatever issues necessitated the private HS. They want their siblings to succeed in life and realize everyone gets what they need, and that might be different things[/quote]
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