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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My son does some but not a lot. I actually get more out of his girlfriend about him than I do him about his girlfriend. LOL[/quote]

I found my son to be more open when he was in a secure relationship. He clams up when he is single. [/quote]

I wish. My son’s GF is so needy and clingy and accuses him of anything and everything. She isn’t supportive of his basketball and gets jealous when he is out with any friends, even when he is just playing sports. He has a few friends since ES that are girls and she hates them. He seems to think that means she really likes him and I am like RED FLAG!!! But if I put my 2 cents in, he would probably like her more. Sigh [/quote]

Searching for how to support my own DD w her BF and came across this.

Your son’s GF may not like some of his childhood friends that are girls because girls - surprise - can actually be really cruel to each other. My DDs BF knows girls from summer swim. They found out he had a GF. They looked up her photo, told him that she is ugly , why would he date her, etc and then started a harassing her on her social media accounts. They never even met her before. They were just being jealous mean girls. The BFs guy friends are nicer but since the BF is the only one w a GF he tends to get teased. So, PP mom, you sons GF may not be such a needy awful person at all but may have had her insecurities tapped because of his friends.   Oh and in our case the BF mom is always like, you spend so much time together when they don’t even go to the same school and they see each other every couple of weeks.  I don’t know what to do for my DD. I have to stay out of it. DD is a good kid, student and disciplined athlete who never gets in trouble. Always courteous to the BF family. The BF is a really nice young man.  But these are the kind of moms she has to deal with.  And I have a son also so I get it. [/quote]

Your daughters job isn’t to get his friends to stop being friends with him. If he likes her, he will tell them to stop and leave her be. If he lets it continue, he doesn’t really like her enough for her to stick around. [/quote]

you can't be serious.[/quote]

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