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[quote=Anonymous]This is going to sound really weird, but: Can your husband make himself less available to you? I had the same issue for a while after having my kid, with my husband always pursuing sex, then backing off and being neutral after we talked about the pressure I felt, but always interested. It always made me feel hunted/like there was something wrong with me for no longer having sexual desire. Turns out I just felt suffocated. The minute he started pretending to be disinterested (we did this as an experiment), there was room for my desire again and I got to be the pursuer. We also realized we were both putting in way less effort and didn’t fully understand female sexual desire. Guys who go straight for the clit kind of ruin it. You need a long, slow buildup, touching anywhere but there until the woman is begging for it. Hope this helps. [/quote]
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