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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your question is infuriating. You already know the answer. It’s clear as day. You actually are describing the fact that the group is toxic to some but not all but then asking can it be true? It happened! So yes, it can be true! [b]By the way, isn’t this life? Isn’t this what most people of color are ALWAYS trying to describe?[/b] [/quote] This is an interesting observation. It's true, these are just classic in-group dynamics. Of course people on the inside think it's great-- they are on the inside. People like OP just don't like admitting that this is what they are doing. They want it both ways-- to be on the inside of the exclusive group but also to be considered nice and welcoming by people on the outside. But that's not how it works. I kind of love that Kelly just exited stage left and now these people STILL talk about her. It honestly sounds like they were shook by the idea that someone would just decide the drama and BS wasn't worth it. I bet they thought their little monopoly on whatever this hobby is meant that people would always be willing to kiss their butts no matter how poorly they were treated. And they are right about people like OP who can't imagine having to find a new hobby or friends. Sounds like Kelly is made of stronger stuff.[/quote]
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