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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Perhaps maybe should be in the health section…? But read on…

40 year old woman

From 22-34 I had an amazing sex drive.

From 22-30, I had amazing sex with different partners. Fun times.

I got married, happily, at 30 to a man who is wonderful but definitely not wild in bed. We had standard sex but frequently for 2 years then our first child was born.

My sex drive never recovered after the birth of our first child 8 years ago. We never got back into it. My drive crashed, and I don’t feel crazy sexual attraction to my wonderful husband. :(

We’ve had 2 children since so we do have sex but now it’s VERY infrequently. My husband is so loving and faithful.

How can I get my groove back? I know I can’t get my 20s back, not with my husband at least…he likes sweet, tender sex and I prefer a bit more passionate and SLIGHTLY dirty.

Any kind advice (beyond “get therapy” which is obvious) would be helpful and I’ll take it to heart.[/quote]

Are you sure he wants sweet, tender sex or is that what he thinks you want? Either tell him what you want or just show him the next time you have sex. I’m very much a girl next door type but in bed I can talk dirty and get very physical and my husband responds in kind. [/quote]

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