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[quote=Anonymous]My mom dated a guy a few years after splitting from my dad, four kids and three of us were teens and the fourth was elementary age.  We all liked him a lot and were always happy to see him.  He did not, however, ever sleep over or just hang out at our house, he came for dinner or we all went out somewhere, and my mom never stayed over at his house either.  He also had three teens.

I'd say my mom was way more discreet than you are being and did not want to inflict her BF on us to any great extent, which worked out very well.  They eventually broke up because although he wanted to marry her she did not want to take on mothering three more teens even for a few years.  His kids liked her a lot too but the idea of six teens blew her mind.

I'd say back off on this relationship, just go on dates and have him for dinner at your house occasionally.  Give your kids a chance to like him in small doses before he becomes a fixture.  Not over a period of months, over several years. You can have your intimate rendezvous somewhere else in such a way that it doesn't affect them.[/quote]

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