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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am absolutely flabbergasted at the people on husband's side. 
The woman has CANCER this isn't the time to be like "do you ask him if he's ok"

Some of you must be raising terrible sons.[/quote]

Caregiver burnout is a real and terrible thing. Yes, she has cancer, and because of people like you, caregivers are just supposed to sit up and shut up. Sounds like he stepped up last time, and probably will again, but he is also allowed to be tired, angry, frustrated, frightened, sad.

Yes, OP is the sick one, but it also sounds like she has a support network. She is not as alone and isolated as she is forcing herself to be at the moment. [/quote]

Caregiver burnout? It sounds like he's not doing much over his normal routine. I'll bet OP does more around the house.

I don't get the impression at all that OP wants him to sit and shut up. As she described it, he gets mad at her who she brings it up and he doesn't want to hear it. He also refused counseling.

I have no idea why people are making so many excuses for him and picking at the OP about her treatment plan. [/quote]

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