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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can only speak to my current relationship which I love my future relationship will depend on their location/distance/marital status.

They both live in cities a quick flight or a long drive away.

I visit both of them one time in the Fall (I stay in hotel), they visit for the holidays (they stay in their rooms). My one son plays a sport so [b]I see him every weekend during his sport for about 12 weeks (we see him for about 5 hours after the game/eat dinner).[/b] My other son will fly to see his brother once or twice during the season.

We have a family chat where we talk a few times a week ... it's a lot right now due to football conversations.

My boys call me/I call them once a week. We text off the group chat once or twice a week.

I will see one son 2 x in the summer. The other son comes home for the summer. When he is home, we probably see each other/eat together a few times a week, his work schedule is odd.

I hope to do a big vacation either this Summer or Next perhaps in the future once every few years. Otherwise, we don't really vacation together since college.

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Have you ever asked your son if he’d prefer you come less often? Maybe he wants to hang out with teammates and friends after his games? Every week seems like a lot![/quote]

Yes, he was injured so we asked if it was okay to come every other weekend or something like that and he said he preferred we come to all the games. It's not just us and him, it's the whole team or at least his grade and all the parents. Believe me they go out after the 5 hours, we go to bed at 9 or 10 and then they go out for the night.

It is a lot. But that is what most families do. [/quote]

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