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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]I recently quit managing MIL's visits because of her complete disrespect for boundaries.[/b] Now DH checks in with her once a week, and we discuss timing of her visits beforehand. OP, your husband may surprise you and talk to his mother more. Assume your MIL may take it as a snub and treat you differently afterwards. I wouldn't have minded continuing to be the main point of contact if she had respected the boundaries I attempted to establish. Instead, her attitude was my son, my grandkids, I can do whatever I want in you house, stay as long and whenever I want.[/quote] Did your MIL ever give a tour of your entire house to distant relatives, in person, even the closed doors, while you stepped out pf your house for an hour? Did you come home to find everyone in your master bathroom? Asking for a friend. Yup.[/quote] When my BIL was visiting he invited people over to our house without asking. I woke up and walked downstairs one morning to find strangers in my living room. [/quote]
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