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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hold up. Who started calling and poo pooing your new higher paying, $100k job “following your passion”? Him? Do not let him reframe things as put downs. [/quote] She quit finance to take a passion job before they even had kids. It was fine when he bankrolled her lifestyle then. But now when kids you both make choices to optimize for the family. My DW makes more than me by 2x, and in my field I can’t catch up to her, so instead I prioritize family friendly jobs to be home by 4 and have flexibility. That’s life with kids. Part time/flex/SAH parent, or a 3rd parent in a nanny or grannie. [/quote]
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