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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why not just talk to him about what you’ve noticed and your worries? Put down a boundary. Flirting is disrespectful to you and the marriage. [/quote]

OP can't put down a boundary. DH can.
If OP puts down a boundary, DH will sneak around it or be resentful. 
If DH doesn't put down a boundary, he made his choice. [/quote]

She can and she should, together with him in a conversation. If he doesn’t respect how she feels about this then OP has her answer of how much or how little the marriage means to him. When the alarm goes off there is usually good reason. Express that to him.  [/quote]

No. His actions towards her have told her how he feels about her and the marriage. It's on op to decide if she wants to stay or go [/quote]

op here-
i am scared of going.[/quote]

[b]He knows that and that's why he's treating you badly.[/b]
This is what's being modeled for your son.
Treat women badly and as if they're disposable.
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The marriage is over in all but name.
And you may not have a choice when it officially ends.
I would bet these two have been engaged in a affair for years. They are just becoming more brazen.
She got her divorce and now it's his turn.
She's been waiting for years.
He's been promising he will and I'd wager he will once your son is 18.
They are pathetic people Op.
You're not pathetic.
Do you're going to goto therapy and get stronger so you know that you're going to survive and thrive.
Get your ducks in a row [/quote]

I generally agree with this and especially the bolded. Think about it, OP. [/quote]

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