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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why not just talk to him about what you’ve noticed and your worries? Put down a boundary. Flirting is disrespectful to you and the marriage. [/quote]

OP can't put down a boundary. DH can.
If OP puts down a boundary, DH will sneak around it or be resentful. 
If DH doesn't put down a boundary, he made his choice. [/quote]

She can and she should, together with him in a conversation. If he doesn’t respect how she feels about this then OP has her answer of how much or how little the marriage means to him. When the alarm goes off there is usually good reason. Express that to him.  [/quote]

No. His actions towards her have told her how he feels about her and the marriage. It's on op to decide if she wants to stay or go [/quote]

op here-
i am scared of going.[/quote]

Make an appointment with a divorce attorney.

Step 1 is to get your finances in order. Maybe now is the time to enroll in a certificate program so you can get a job. Time to open credit cards, buy a car in your name and put a lot of money down. Maybe even buy an investment property that you could possibly live in after a divorce. Things like that. [/quote]

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