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Reply to "Husband offering to help another woman"
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[quote=Anonymous]I get your concern about his relationship with this woman, but look at it from her perspective. It would be reasonable and understandable if you asked your husband not to be alone with another woman. If you were asking him not to do handyman repairs at her home for example, you may come off a bit paranoid but normal. However if she is a friend or close acquaintance and presumably she is qualified for the job at his company - it would be really strange not to pass along her resume. I submit referrals all the time for randos my mom meets - her book club member’s nephew, her physical therapist’s wife, etc. I work for a large company and it’s a small good deed that doesn’t cost me anything besides 15 min. If I had a comfortable friendly acquaintance relationship with a neighbor who worked in my field and they refused to refer me for an open role I would ask why and assume they did not like me or felt I would reflect poorly on them. [/quote]
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