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[quote=Anonymous]Flirting with someone, especially in front of you and in a group setting is highly disrespectful.

If nothing else, you should voice your feelings about this.

He will get defensive, no doubt.  But, you need to let him know that this is how you feel and that him denying it is negating your feelings.

Let him know that since you see them flirting, you feel that him working with her and seeing her on a daily basis without you around makes you feel uncomfortable.

Ask him how he would feel if you were flirty with some good looking guy, and you helped that guy get a job at your workplace.  More than likely, he will say that he'd be fine with it because to say otherwise would be acknowledging the situation. But even so, this might help him see your view, even if it's just planting that seed.

If he disregards your feelings about this completely and goes ahead with it, I think you can see the writing on the wall.  Get your affairs (no pun intended) in order, and be ready for whatever may come.[/quote]

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