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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I call BS on these responses from men.

No man with a decent life plan is fine being with a woman who is unemployed living at home with a crappy car in 2023.  Those things don't just happen in a bubble, but reflect bigger things going on in the OP's life.  There are men who are okay with, or may even prefer, lower income women (teachers, etc). But the idea being that they want a motivated, decently educated woman who has demonstrated some level of commitment to something (school, job), so that once kids come along, she'll stay home and shift that ethic to running the house.

DH had a college friend who got engaged to someone like OP describes. She had blond hair and fake breasts, a beater car, and lived with her parents without any sort of consistent job.  All the men in DH's college circle were talking behind the guy's back wondering what the hell he was doing with such a dumpster fire.  And these were guys who at the time (and 20 years later) were very cool with the idea of a sahm.

The guys responding on here that not having a job is fine are full of it, and are just used to being the "counterpoint" to dcum women who are very pro-education, pro-career. But I promise you they don't want to date an semi-permanently unemployed, career-less woman living at home with as much baggage as your OP indicates.  [/quote]

How stupid of you, then. You'll have to stretch those two neurons of yours to grasp the fact that there are many socio-economic levels in this area and that if OP is reasonably attractive, she will be able to date. Maybe not the men in YOUR rarified circle, but normal men.

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