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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]have you ever kept something from your spouse really out of protection? This is a secret my son had asked me to not share with anyone and I gave him my word. My husband has been under and an extraordinary  amount of stress lately and I honestly didn’t have it in me to devastate him which I know the secret would do. Plus I didn’t want to betray my sons trust. Part of me feels guilty, but part of me feels like I’m doing the right thing anyone ever been through anything like this?[/quote]

No.  DH and I are a team, and I won’t let the kids triangulate us.  I have given a kid time to realize I will need to tell DH; I have let them decide whether I or the kid will tell him; I would delay for work stress for a bit.  But DH and I are a team - no secrets.  [/quote]

same. and the kids know this. However, my husband has requested he not know any "girl talk" stuff. Obliged. 
we do have an adult child with some crippling anxiety. It works best if I talk to him alone and then fill my husband in on the high points and everyone is agreeable with this. [/quote]

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