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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She should’ve just asked if she could go nobody would care weirdo[/quote]

Do you know nothing of teen girl relationships?[/quote]

Well, I did raise four of them[/quote]

That’s surprising because as someone else with older girls, I agree with PP. If she was excluded for a reason the worst thing she could do is ask if she could come. [/quote]

She knows if she was excluded for a reason. [/quote]

She may not know.
1) Crazy rumors float around among girls and sometimes separately among moms that can cause exclusion without the person who is the subject ever knowing.
2) Another guest might have a one-sided beef with her and have refused to come if OP’s DD was invited. At this age, it is often about perceived romantic rivalry, but it could be anything. 
3) Queen Bees are savvy and know that exclusion is easier and less likely to carry consequences than other forms of bullying. “You aren’t inviting Larla, right? I CAN’T if she’s coming. I mean, seriously.” [/quote]

Ugh to number 3.

4) Sometimes groups use exclusion to bond more closely. The problem with these kind of cliques is that you never know who will be next. [/quote]

This # 4 exactly happened to my daughter. It is sad and the girls and some parents don't realise what they are doing to the child. Horrible behavior. [/quote]

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