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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don’t get married. If you want to have kids, do it as a single parent. Never tell the father, ever. If you can, have you mom move in with you a provide childcare. If you can’t do that, get an amazing nanny, and pay her amazingly well to keep her.[/quote] Whaaaat? Why is it better to have kids without the support of a spouse to help raise them? My parents are super helpful but it is different from having a spouse in the home. “Don’t have kids” is fine advice though. I remember discussing our weekends with a female colleague who is a similar age, with similar age kids, but several rungs above me. Her response - “worked on XYZ” and meanwhile I had an awesome weekend with my kids and didn’t touch my laptop. I suddenly was grateful for the $300k pay difference between us![/quote]
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