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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is he really wonderful in all the other ways? You tell him something you want/need and he tells you 'the way we do it is fine.' That's really, really different than him explaining why it is hard for him. That's dismissive and on the verge of outright gaslighting. [/quote] Op here. I mean, nobody’s perfect but I would say yes-he is pretty great. But I’m also not perfect and I’ll own that. But this issue bothers me so so much. And believe me, I wish it didn’t. I wish it didn’t mind/care. As it appears it wouldn’t matter to lots of women on this thread. I wish it didn’t matter to me either. But it does. [/quote] Why do you wish your sexual life / desires and your sexual relationship with your DH didn’t matter? Of course it matters!!! And if your DH expects monogamy and also doesn’t see your dissatisfaction as his / your issue together as well … then you have a pretty fundamental problem. [/quote]
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