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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is really difficult. He is so kind and sweet but despite a PhD has barely gotten anywhere in life at age 50. Is very sympathetic with the downtrodden and has not succeeded materially at all. I respect that he lives within his means (has a housemate whose rent subsidizes his very low mortgage) but am tired of splitting the bill, treating and staying in. I feel so guilty bc he’s really nice but it hard to imagine living this way now.[/quote] This isn’t all that difficult. I’m also a kind, sweet, 50s guy in almost this situation, except I haven’t finished fixing up the space in my house to rent out yet. And my STEM PhD doesn’t get me to earn enough to live large in the DMV. But my friends, who all make more than I do, agree that I have by far the coolest job. It’s meaningful and rewarding and will have a lasting impact. And while we might get along, I could never stay in a relationship with a woman who could only see that as ‘not enough $’. [/quote]
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