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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The good news, OP, is that lots of things will get easier soon, as your kids become more capable and independent. Mine are 7 and 9, and it is already so much more manageable than when they were 4 and 6. For now, I suggest you let the house be a mess. Bring the kids with you to walk the dog and make it a bonding time. [b] Do a B- job at work, and know that this is ok for a while. Remember, a B- is still above average![/b] Hang in there. It is hard, but it does get better.[/quote] This is important. I’m constantly comparing my work performance to before I had kids. Back then I had incredible focus and was constantly thinking about how to solve big problems. I put in hours to go above and beyond. It got me where I am today and sometimes I feel like a fraud not having the same focus and not spending my off time noodling on work problems. But I am still by anyone’s measure, really good at my job, and that needs to be ok!! [/quote]
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