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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you can send your brother and SIL a message - “hey, I heard you stayed over at Moms. It’s been weighing on me a lot, and I don’t want to overstep, but given my experience with step father that I shared previously, how much I love your girls, and how devastating those experiences were for me as a kid, I feel really compelled to reach out and just say it made me really nervous when I heard that. I don’t want to make this A Thing between us and won’t bring it up again (no need to reply to this text) but it’s been keeping me up at night. you guys were so great and understanding when I shared with you previously that I figured I should reach out with my concerns. please forgive me if you think I’m meddling. Love you guys.”[/quote] this email is FAR too passive. OP can say the words “sexual abuse” not “my experience.” otherwise it sounds unclear and like OP herself is apologizing for it. OP this is kind of random, but I wonder if you would benefit from reading about Elizabeth Smart. One thing she advocates for is that women and girls shouldn’t feel shame about their abuse. https://nypost.com/2020/12/01/elizabeth-smart-never-told-parents-about-sexual-abuse-by-kidnappers/amp/[/quote]
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