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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Realities of DH:
-  ADD (let me senior dog out to potty, [b]forgot about him, and the dog drowned[/b] in the pool)
- on the spectrum 
- career fell off a cliff 8 years ago (fired from job, accepted low paying government drone position and has never left)

It’s been a struggle, but [b]we have two kids[/b] and I literally have zero family support so I’m not leaving.  I make significantly more than him, and also work an extra 30 hours per month as an attorney freelancer (on top of my full time job) so we can have a nice life and have a vacation, throw a good bday party for the kids etc.
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What will you do when he lets one of your kids die?[/quote]

PP.  Put my kids in swim lessons when they turned 2.  Now, they’re on a year round competitive swim team.  They know they can’t swim alone in the pool and they comply with that rule.  Oldest is 13, youngest 10.  Would never allow DH to take the kids to the ocean without me.  Part of the reason I stay..to protect them.[/quote]

And you think that's the only way they can die from his neglect/ forgetfulness?[/quote]

PP.  They’re not infants and are pretty self sufficient.  My daughter babysits.  How is DH’s neglect going to kill them at this point?  Most potentially dangerous situations I can control by being lead decision maker.[/quote]

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