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[quote=Anonymous]Travel plans in the next few months -- is the least important. So, he loses some money. Not very big, not in the big picture. He should not move if he doesn't want to. His life -with another woman- will be happier in a place he wants to be. And certainly her attachment to her family, and not him, is the main reason for a breakup. But he was to decide this, and on his timeline. He should feel no obligation that she has to be "the one". Often with first intimate relationship, and promises made, there can be tremendous guilt when breaking up. Again, money lost on a trip is pretty unimportant, in the big picture, so don't nit pick about a timeline. Other thought though - maybe she has just decided she's tired of waiting for a proposal? If he hasn't prosed by now ... or soon (on this trip ...?), she's moving home. She may be thinking she may as well since there's no firm commitment for her to stay in DC when she otherwise wouldn't.[/quote]
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