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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can you share what your lowest marital point was and how you and spouse bounced back? Going through an incredibly tough two years that has included an emotional affair and trying to find hope [/quote]

I had an emotional affair with a lot of sexting and I think I definitely had real feelings for the other person, if not love.

Our marriage was very unhealthy, the way we resolved conflicts was unhealthy, we had stopped having sex.  It was just bad all around.

DH had an incredible amount of maturity and forgiveness in letting it go, and our marriage is healing.  I think we are over this hump.  Hang in there OP.[/quote]

Did you stop the affair on your own? Or did DH give you an ultimatum?[/quote]

I confessed, stopped it on my own.  DH basically told me he would never leave me even if I had a relationship with another man.  His reaction was weird.  But I was mourning for the other relationship for a long time.  It was the first time I had felt wanted and desirable in a long time.[/quote]

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