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[quote=Anonymous]It's been 16 years now. At about 11 years dh was in an awful job. The boss he dealt with was a miserable human being. DH has always had a touch of anxiety but therapy and occasional meds made it completely manageable until this made him spiral. He was a trainwreck. He was mad and depressed and tired. We have a kid with some special needs that weren't well managed at that point. DH was snippy with all of us all the time. Not patient at all with dd who needed a significant amount of support. Harsh with our other kid. Rude to me and not understanding the burden that was now on me. Just not a good dad or husband. For varying degrees for close to 2 years. He eventually found a new job. He started to heal. Slowly. It took a long time. He got his confidence back and was a good dad and husband again. But it was a brutal time when there seemed to be no joy in our house except when I was faking it for the kids. [/quote]
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