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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Married 9 years. I’m the wife, and and now making 3X DH’s salary. He is not money motivated (scientist), and I feel alone in my by goals to work hard to build wealth. I would like to match his salary in a joint account for our living expenses and keep the rest for myself. He says he is not opposed to this. Has anyone ever done anything like this? Is it very unreasonable of me to feel this way? I’m hoping this can assuage my resentment. If I could go back I would marry someone with better aligned values, but I can’t go back in time. Marriage is otherwise decent. We have a child with another on the way so I don’t want to frivolously divorce. [/quote] I mean, that’s not thinking about your family as a single economic unit. Generally speaking if the roles were reversed, women would take umbrage to your request. But if money is your principal concern, you do you. [/quote]
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