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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why did you accept a spot at TJ in the first place if an uw gpa around 3.8 is making you freak out and want to pull your kid back to base school?  Shouldn't it have been obvious that TJ is going to be a bad fit for parents who want their kids to get all As?[/quote]

The top 1/3rd of Freshman students typically achieve mostly As due to their strong proficiency in advanced math, English, and science from middle school. For them, they are just learning the new material that TJ courses teach. However, for others, particularly the bottom 1/3rd of the Freshman class, the experience can be stressful. They need to first catch up on what they should have mastered thoroughly in middle school, and then delve into the new TJ course material. This double workload leaves little time for sports or extracurricular activities, and put the student in a constant catchup mode. Without an entrance evaluation, it becomes challenging for parents or students to know their readiness for TJ upfront.  [/quote]

So sick of this. The OPs kid had mainly A’s at 2 B+ as a Freshman at TJ. They are doing fine. The student is working hard for a B in chemistry, which, if I understand TJ properly, is essentially an AP class without the AP designation that is normally taken after completing regular Chemistry. It is a hard class. A B in a hard class is fine. Chemistry is the only  class that the OP is calling out, which implies an A in all the other classes.

You want the entrance exam back because it was something that parents could prep their kids for so their kids got into TJ. You don’t like the idea that kids from every MS in the county have a chance to attend TJ because they do not fit the profile of who you think should attend TJ.

The OPs kid is doing fine, I would say well, at TJ. They have an excellent GPA in challenging classes. The student needs to decide if they want to stay at TJ and the parents need to understand that B’s are solid grades even if they are not A’s especially at a school like TJ. The OP is essentially asking “Should I send my kid back the the base where they can get easy A’s and breeze through high school instead of allowing my kid to be challenged even if that means an occasional B.”  That tells me that all that is important to the OP is the grade and not what the child is learning.

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OP and their student are taking a pragmatic approach to their grades, understanding that they are assessed not in isolation but in comparison to their peers for college admissions. Even teacher recommendations may not be as outstanding as those for the top 1/3rd of the class. This situation could have been avoided if there were an objective test assessing students' readiness and depth in math, science, and English. Students are expected to be well-prepared, akin to how Michael Jordan prepared himself before stepping onto the basketball court. Just as little MJ's parents played a crucial role in his preparation, there's a dedicated parent behind every qualified TJ student, diligently fulfilling their responsibilities.  TJ does not have the capacity to provide remedial instruction to unprepared students who require catch-up on middle school material.
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Are there really that many TJ kids with unweighted 4.0s?  Would OP's kid's 3.8-ish GPA really be in the middle 1/3?[/quote]

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