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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks to the previous posters with informative stuff.  I don't think my DH is asexual because in the beginning we ahd plenty of sex.....if someone is asexual, aren't they always "that way"... So eliminating asexuality, it seems the other options are: (1) depression/anger (check -- but even a depressed person would want to have sex at least once in 9 months????); (2) resentment - maybe there (but again, aren't even resentful people horny? (3) affair (possible, if so, a few years ago when I was more busy); or (4) repressed/closet gay (at least two friends admitted to me they thought he might be gay over the years..... after I vented to them about my lack of sex life....).  So, argh, this leaves me in the weird place of having asked DH twice now if he is gay over the past efw years,and him just saying that he likes women.....but never making a move on me.... I've posted on other threads....I'm attractive/fit/size 2...it's not like I've let myself go......Soooooooooooo..... I'm at a loss of what next.  I just wish I could find out for sure either way......it would help me make a decision about things...[/quote]

As someone wrote, a detective might be the only way you can find out.  And just because you are attractive does not mean he is still attracted to you.  Not trying to sound harsh, but men are visual creatures and their tastes change.  It could be that he cared about you deeply when you got married but in his heart did not want to go through with it but beginning of relationship sex was enough for him to go through with it.  Again, don't mean to diss you but these are possibilities.  Finally, why did two of your friends think that he is gay?  [/quote]

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