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Reply to ""Your spouse should handle the ILs" Why? "
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[quote=Anonymous]"you handle your mom" generally applies to conflict resolution. In law relationships can be fraught, on both sides. The blood relative needs to make clear that 1)s/he and spouse are a team and 2) what the boundaries are and enforce them. Otherwise the in law often continues to push, test and violate boundaries. Having one designated person to maintain these boundaries reduces triangulation, divide and conquer, and overall conflict. It's better for everyone.[/quote]
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