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[quote=Anonymous]I'm 100% for a setting things up in a new marriage where you each take care of your own side of the family...... Then later you can start blending in if that's what that dynamics allow for but to go in with a default that I'm going to be family manager for three families, his mine and ours.....Hell no. That may have worked when women stayed home all day and had maids and housekeepers, but I certainly don't have time to deal with some of his family shenanigans. Depends on the in-laws as well. Some are very easy to deal with in communicate with and others are not. Sister-in-law and I are great. We can plan something in 5 minutes flat but you bring my mother-in-law into it and it takes weeks. I don't have time for back and forth about what type of potatoes someone should bring. If my husband wants to get involved in that conversation, he is more than happy to do so. [/quote]
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