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[quote=Anonymous]It sounds like since he's "semi retired" he wants to move on to a lifestyle more like full retirement while you are working full-time and earning more of the income you and he are living on. You're at different points in your lives professionally and in terms of day to day lifestyle, is that fair to say? This is the kind of tipping point at which some couples divorce. Add in the fact he pressures you over other things over the years, and the fact you do not have kids to link you together for life, and this sounds like a time when you should not move at all but he can if he wants to. Maybe he fears that if you split up, he cannot afford to move where he wants, since you are the breadwinner, OP. He is hoping to use your fear of his anger to get you to keep supporting his lifestyle. That may be part of the pressure--he expects to keep [i]your[/i] income rolling in so [i]he[/i] can make his desired move. Not a good thing. [/quote]
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