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[quote=Anonymous]I pointed out last year how often my DH “wins” some of our biggest arguments. You’d think it would be me. Because I think we know I win some of the little stuff. But the big stuff, it was an easy timeline to lay out. This house and this move and this big choice. All what he wanted to do, with me (not even really personally) being against it.. more like questioning and pushing back because my side hadn’t been considered. Important questions for me weren’t answered. I might have agreed with him, except we never addressed my questions. I just gave in, because time was running out and we were at the stalemate. I also don’t want to win everything.. but .. When I brought this up, he agreed. He had not noticed it before; however he understood my perspective. Since then, a couple of medium-level decisions, we’ve brought this issue into play. He now knows I want more input — not me winning, but not disregarding my side.[/quote]
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