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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. He’s still p!ssed and is continuing to talk about “when we move.” Almost like our conversation earlier today did not occur. I guess I just need to move forward on my own because he is determined for us to move. It’s not for a job opportunity for him. He’s semi retired and will continue to be so in Florida. He’s always wanted to live there. We’ve gone several times to look at areas to live and I always feel depressed— I don’t see anything I like in our budget. I’ve lived in DMV all my life and it’s really hard to go. He says “nothing about our life will change” because I will continue working from home and then going to the gym after work. I think everything will change. I don’t want to do this.[/quote]

Look, if he wants to retire, fine... he can sell the house, take his half of the equity and move there.

Would he consider getting a small place down there and living apart for several months of the year?

It seems to be that he is removing you from any form of support system. You have lived in DMV your while life and have relatives nearby. And in Florida you will only have him. He just sees you as an automaton to serve him, so nothing will change, because you will still work from home and earn money, and go to the gym to keep in shape! And they have grocery stores there, and you can clean those house! But he's not worried about you having to leave your relatives, friends, doctors, hobbies...!

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