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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here again. I just talked to him. It did not go well. He is extremely angry and blaming my anxiety, telling me I am not thinking rationally. I requested we put the move on hold and go to a therapist to discuss the issues and how we are both feeling, so we can get on the same page, and he flat out refuses. Keeps saying we have to move NOW because the housing market is about to crash and we have to get the equity from our house. Very very mad at me because he has been working so hard on every aspect of the move preparation. At the same time telling me he is afraid I will leave him over this. I feel completely backed into a corner here. [/quote]

I am glad you talked to him.

I'm not surprised that you feel backed into a corner. But you're not. There is no true urgency here, from everything you've said.

I agree w/PP that him blaming your anxiety and saying you're not thinking rationally is ~gaslighting. It's his way of pressuring you to cave. 
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