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[quote=Anonymous]I'm getting a whiff of family scapegoating here. When you say two of them "no surprise, they were both easy kids...we have great relationships with them...we respect them,". that's a flashing, neon sign. The "easy kids" complied with your world view and were rewarded with parental affection, and respect. The other two...were not...rewarded in the same ways...do not have your respect. From what you write, it sounds like this parent-child has been a life-long pattern? Each child in a family is assigned a role to play, either consciously or unconsciously, by the parents. Go research what can happen to family scapegoats when they become adults. It might open your eyes.[/quote]
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