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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you mean well op but you say you drone on about stuff that people have no interest in. So if they changed the subject you’d just drone on about something else. These are not your people. You need to find people who love talking and listening about what you love to talk about. If you can’t pick up on social cues, it is what it is. It won’t change and make you more likable to people who are partiers and NT. [/quote]

I’m OP. So I’m ND but how I differ from people with classic ASD, or at least being a milder version of it, is that some habits I’ve been able to grow out of. I look back at some of the things I subjected my friends to when I was in middle school and high school and cringe. But let me tell you what it’s like to get caught up in one of my obsessions. It’s like I lose myself in a topic when I get engaged in it. It’s like having a romantic affair with a given subject. My heart races and I blush and I feel like I can’t get enough. And I lose sight of how other people are reacting. When my family used to tell me, eventually I would listen and understand how it annoys people, but I’d be in denial or at least unaware of it when I was in the real world. And to this day, while I’m sure I do it a lot less than I used to, I probably still do it without realizing it, and that’s what I wish people could make me more aware of. [/quote]

As the other person in this conversation, there’s just no polite way to tell another person that they are boring, which is what you are asking. It’s just not going to happen. It’s probably best not to talk about your passions. Can you do small talk? [/quote]

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